This is a glaring bug in v26. Other threads about it:
https://forums.opera.com/topic/6632/problem-with-focus-in-opera-26
https://forums.opera.com/topic/6625/flash-videos-can-t-be-interacted-after-visiting-other-tabs
https://forums.opera.com/topic/6849/opera-problem-with-flash
https://forums.opera.com/topic/6791/annoying-bug-that-happens-when-changing-tab